MEGAN
LUSCOMBE
(RELATIONAL STRATEGIST)
You’re doing everything right.
But none of it feels like you.
That’s where I come in.
WHAT THIS IS —
Most of what you believe about yourself - your personality, your limitations, what you want, how you love, what you deserve - was handed to you. By your parents, your partners, your culture, the particular decade you grew up in.
You absorbed it before you were old enough to question it. And now it runs your life while you think you're running your life.
I work with women who have done everything right and still feel like they're living someone else's version of their life. We put it all on the table. We trace every belief, every pattern, every ceiling back to where it actually came from. And then we figure out what's actually yours.
What's left - once the inherited noise drops away - is the most useful thing I can ever hand someone. Themselves.
I am not a psychologist or therapist. This is something else entirely.
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HOW IT WORKS —
Everything starts with a first session. We look at what's actually happening — not the surface version, the real one. I tell you what I see. You leave knowing what you're working with.
For those ready to go deeper, we work together over time. Not in a locked package. Not on a rigid schedule. An ongoing relationship — consistently, for as long as the work needs to run.
There are no programmes. No modules. No homework. Just the room, the work, and what becomes possible inside it.
WHO I WORK WITH —
The presenting problem is always different. The underlying mechanics — inherited scripts, invisible agreements, patterns that predate the people currently living them — rarely are.
Women
You've built a life that looks right from the outside. But something has gone quiet. The choices you make, the way you show up, what you tolerate — none of it feels like it came from you. You're ready to find out what actually does.
Couples
You're having the same fight in different wrapping. Or something has gone quiet and neither of you will name it. You need someone who won't take sides and won't bullshit you.
Organisations
The same problems keep surfacing with different people in different roles. The dynamic is costing you — in output, in culture, in time. There's a system underneath it. Let's find it.
WHERE EVERYONE STARTS —
First session.
$450 + GST.
45 minutes. We look at what's actually happening and whether continuing makes sense. This is the only decision you need to make right now.
Available via Zoom or in person, Mount Martha
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ABOUT ME —
Meet me, Megan.
I've been doing this work for fourteen years. In that time I've sat across from women who had built everything they were supposed to build and still felt completely lost inside it. I know that feeling because I've lived it.
I've burned my own life down and rebuilt it. I've shed the identity I thought was mine, the sexuality I thought was mine, the expectations I thought were mine. I've come out the other side knowing, with unusual clarity, what it actually looks like to choose yourself over the version of yourself that other people need you to be.
That's what I bring into the room. Not a methodology. Not a framework. The specific sight that comes from having walked this terrain in the dark without a map.
I work with people who are serious about change. I'm queer, married to a woman, and a mum. I wear my values — in solidarity with Palestine, the LGBTQIA+ community, and all those fighting for equity and liberation.
I only work with those aligned in values, integrity, and a genuine appetite for change.