Breaking patterns. Building freedom.
I identify the hidden emotional and systemic patterns blocking individuals, couples, and businesses from breakthrough - then architect the structures that dissolve them.
I see the thing you keep walking past.
I pick up on the emotional undercurrents before you’ve found words for them. Then I say the thing that changes everything.
I don’t give you a five-step plan. I show you what you’ve been dancing around. These are the moments where your current story stops working and a truer one can finally surface.
My work isn’t about handing you information. It’s about being in it with you in a way that actually shifts how you think, feel, and move through the world. The way I listen, push back, and hold the complexity creates change while we’re sitting together.
I see what’s dying.
This is what I do best: I can tell when something in your life is already dead but you’re still trying to keep it alive. A relationship that ended months ago. A business model you’ve outgrown. A version of yourself you’re clinging to.
I help you see it clearly so you can finally let it go. Because nothing new can grow in that space until you do.
I stop the loops you keep running. I point out the invisible things blocking what you actually want. Then I help you create the conditions for those things to dissolve.
I find the pattern running everything.
Most people are trying to fix the symptom. I show you the system creating it.
I find the invisible rules running your life. The patterns you inherited without realising.
The unspoken agreements dictating how things unfold. Once you see them, you can’t unsee them. And then we change them.
This works whether you’re one person trying to unfuck your relationships, a couple rewriting how you relate, or a business finally dealing with the power dynamics everyone pretends aren’t there.
Surface problems need surface solutions. But if you keep ending up in the same place no matter what you try? That’s a systems problem. I teach you to see how everything connects, what’s actually driving the behaviour, and where you can intervene to create real change.
When you work with me, you’re not buying a strategy doc or a pep talk. You’re getting someone who can hold the contradictions, see through the story you’re telling yourself, and reflect back what’s actually true.
What I actually fix.
Most relational and business problems don’t get solved because you’re looking at the wrong thing.
You see the symptoms: the same argument in different wrapping paper, team members who keep underperforming, leaders who can’t keep staff, relationships that feel finished but won’t actually end. So you try communication workshops, therapy, new hires, strategy sessions. Nothing changes because you’re treating the surface while the real problem runs underneath.
The actual problem is the pattern you can’t see. The invisible structure governing every interaction and outcome without you realising it.
I make that pattern visible. I show you what’s actually happening: the emotional logic driving the loop, the dynamics keeping the system stuck, the structures you’ve been unconsciously maintaining. The specific thing that’s already dead but you’re still animating.
Then we create the conditions for something new to emerge.
Who I work with.
I work with people facing complex challenges, who can sit with intensity, and who value actual transformation over staying comfortable. My practice centres women and LGBTQIA+ folks, but I work with anyone - regardless of gender or sexuality - ready to break inherited patterns and consciously rebuild.
Individuals
I work with women who lead and queer/trans folks of any gender navigating repeating patterns in how they show up, how they connect, and how much they trust themselves.
LGBTQIA+ Couples
I work with LGBTQIA+ couples building relationships and lives outside of heteronormative templates - whether you're navigating coming out, transition, questioning monogamy, restructuring dynamics, or realising the relationship you built no longer fits who you're becoming.
Businesses
I work with women-led businesses and teams, and businesses led by queer/trans folks of any gender, facing the kind of dysfunction that keeps circling back: toxic dynamics, failed leadership transitions, communication breakdowns, or relational patterns bleeding your resources and culture.
What happens when you do this work
My clients don’t just solve the problem they came in with. They change how they see everything.
You stop running on autopilot, repeating patterns you didn’t choose and following rules that don’t actually serve you. You see the invisible dynamics that were running your life, and you consciously redesign them.
If you’re an individual, you rewire how you show up in relationships. If you’re a couple, you rebuild your entire dynamic from scratch. If you’re a business, you restructure how power, communication, and decisions actually move through your organisation.
This isn’t about getting 10% better. It’s about fundamental redesign. Your internal and external worlds realigning with who you’re becoming, not who you’ve been.
Work with me.
These appointments are entry points into deeper strategic work. Clients move into ongoing retainers after their initial assessment.
Individual Pattern Assessment
60 minutes | $500 + GST
This is where we start. An assessment session is a deep dive into the patterns, blocks, and systems that are keeping you stuck—whether that’s in your relationships, your work, or how you’re showing up in your own life. We’re not here to fix anything in one conversation. We’re here to see what’s actually going on beneath the surface, so you know what you’re working with.
After your assessment, ongoing work begins with a package:
5-Session Package: $1,875 + GST (paid upfront)
Five 45-minute sessions at $375 + GST each. This package is designed for people ready to do the work over time, with enough sessions to actually shift something rather than just talk about it. Sessions must be used within 12 months of purchase.
Once you’ve completed your initial package, you can book single sessions at $425 + GST (45 minutes) as needed.
Relational Dynamic Assessment
90 minutes | $800 + GST
This is where we map the relationship - the patterns you’re caught in, the things you’re not saying, the places where you’re both stuck or out of sync. We’re looking at the system you’ve built together, not just the surface conflicts. This session gives you clarity on what’s actually happening between you, and what needs to shift if you want something different.
After your assessment, couples work requires a 3-month commitment:
3-Month Couples Commitment: $4,125 + GST (paid upfront)
This includes 6 individual sessions (45 minutes each at $375 + GST) and 3 couples sessions (60 minutes each at $625 + GST) over the course of 3 months. You decide the cadence that works for you - whether that’s alternating between individual and couples work, frontloading individual sessions, or spacing them out evenly. The structure is designed to give each of you space to work through your own patterns while also addressing what’s happening between you.
After completing your initial 3-month commitment, you can either recommit for another 3 months at the same rate, or book ad-hoc sessions as needed: couples sessions at $675 + GST (60 minutes) or individual sessions at $425 + GST (45 minutes).
Business Alignment Assessment
30 minutes | $500 + GST
A diagnostic session where we identify what’s not working, uncover the invisible dynamics creating it, and determine if there’s a fit for ongoing strategic work. You’ll leave with clarity on what’s actually blocking your outcomes and whether a retained engagement makes sense.
Ongoing work requires a 3-month retainer, paid upfront:
Organisational Retainer: $22,500 + GST
5 hours of monthly strategic engagement over 3 months. This is for organisations ready to address systemic issues - whether that’s leadership dynamics, team dysfunction, or structural blocks that keep showing up no matter who’s in the room. Includes ad-hoc access for urgent issues within the monthly hour allocation. Hours do not roll over between months. After completing the initial 3 months, you can recommit at the same rate.
Partnership Retainer: $67,500 + GST
15 hours of monthly strategic engagement over 3 months. This level of access is designed for businesses undergoing significant transformation or navigating complex systemic challenges that require sustained attention. Structured around your organisation’s needs with flexibility for leadership coaching, team interventions, and advisory support. Hours do not roll over between months. After completing the initial 3 months, you can recommit at the same rate.
Who I am.
I didn’t learn pattern recognition in a course. It’s how I survived my own life.
I’ve spent 14 years learning to see what’s really happening before someone’s even found words for it.
Every pattern I help people break? I’ve lived it, survived it, and figured out how to actually change it.